Do you want to give your child freedom?
When my child was nearly five years old, I carefully considered and visited many places and registered him for calligraphy. The little guy liked it very much at first, but he was impatient for classes that took less than two weeks.
One night, he finally said: "Mom, I don't want to go to class today!"
I asked him: "Why?"
He said: "I don't like calligraphy!"
For the child’s response, I had expected that before I had no children, I told myself: I want to be a friend of my child and discuss everything with him and never force him to do anything he does not want to do.
I thought at that time: I would give him a garden, give him room for food, let him be free and open, and we would applaud him whether he had red flowers or green flowers.
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Do you want to limit children's freedom?
"Restocking," "extensive," and "freedom" are just as charming as these words, but indeed any word has another side: the trap side.
Treating children’s shortcomings in learning, blindly believing in “freedom†and “going by him/her†is obviously not easy for children to handle on their own. If they can’t help in time, the children will lose confidence in this course and have no interest in it.
I gradually discovered that it is difficult for parents to truly become friends with their children. Especially when the children are young, parents must make the right decisions for the children, and sometimes even force them to do things they do not want to do, especially learning.
Mr. Tsai Kang-yung once said a paragraph and I very much agree with him. He said:
"When I was 5 years old, I thought it was difficult to swim and I gave up swimming. When I met someone you like about 18 and asked you to go swimming, you had to say, "I won't be able to." At 18, I find it difficult to speak English. I abandon English and I am 28 years old. But if you want to work in English, you have to say, "I won't be able to do it." The more troublesome you are in the early stages of life, the more you are too lazy to learn, and the more likely you are to miss people and things that make you tempted and miss new scenery."
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